Father-Daughter Recursion Trap

There’s no firm protocol for handling a relationship with a wayward parent. I’ve often wished there was, that in certain situations I could have looked at some flowchart optimized for a healthy father-daughter relationship — or at least peaceful coexistence — that would tell me what to do. I could choose from a list of finite options that, once chosen, stayed chosen. Those choices would have predictable, immovable consequences until…

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Writing on modern madness, within and without. stephanieeislervance.com IG: stephmakesfaces

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Writing on modern madness, within and without. stephanieeislervance.com IG: stephmakesfaces

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